The Armchair Experts of Hospitality: Running Hotels Without Living the Operation
There is a scene that repeats itself constantly in hospitality. Anyone who has truly worked in operations will recognise it within seconds.
It is 8:45 in the morning. Breakfast is completely full. A family is waiting for a table. The main coffee machine has just gone down. Two room attendants are running behind because of late check-outs. There is a queue at reception. One guest is demanding an early check-in. Another is threatening to write a review because the omelette is not “runny” enough. And Maintenance has just reported an issue with the domestic hot water system.
Meanwhile, someone who is not there — and who has probably never experienced a morning like this — sends you a WhatsApp message explaining how you should better organise breakfast.
Hospitality is full of people who have opinions about operations without ever having lived them. People who talk about guest experience without having managed a crisis with 300 in-house guests. People who talk about efficiency without having completed a night audit when the system is down. People who talk about leadership without having had to rebuild an exhausted team in the middle of August.
And the most fascinating thing is that they almost always speak with admirable confidence. Heroic confidence, even.
Because hospitality has a very particular character: the desk-bound expert, the PowerPoint consultant, the absentee owner, the LinkedIn guru, or the strategist who magically appears once the storm has passed. Never during it.
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You will never see them when:
- there are 150 simultaneous check-ins,
- a group arrives two hours early,
- two people are missing from the kitchen team,
- a VIP guest is threatening to leave,
- the PMS stops synchronising,
- the rooftop is full,
- Reception is dealing with an overbooking,
- and Maintenance discovers a water leak on the third floor.
Curiously, they always appear afterwards. When everything has stabilised. When the fire has already been put out. When someone else has done the difficult work.
Then come the legendary phrases:
- “What should be done is…”
- “This does not happen in other hotels…”
- “The solution is simple…”
- “We need to professionalise…”
- “What matters is the experience…”
- “There is a lack of organisation…”
Hospitality has a serious problem with theory detached from operational reality.
And I am not talking about serious consultancy. Good consultancy brings enormous value. I have learned a great deal from outstanding external professionals — brilliant people who can spot blind spots you cannot see from within.
I am talking about something else.
I am talking about those who believe that a hotel is an elegant Excel spreadsheet with guests inside it.
Because analysing a hotel is one thing. Keeping it running is something entirely different.
Real hotel operations do not happen at conferences. They happen at 11:47 p.m., when there is an electrical issue and the hotel is full. They happen when the team has gone twelve days without a break because occupancy has surged. They happen when, in seconds, you have to choose between profitability, guest experience, protecting the team and online reputation.
That is where many experts disappear.
In hospitality, there is an enormous difference between:
- knowing the concepts,
- and absorbing operational pressure.
And only those who have truly been on the inside understand that difference.
Because managing a hotel is not about saying what needs to be done. It is about making things work while everything around you is moving at once.
That means living with constant contradictions:
- Reducing costs without destroying the guest experience.
- Demanding quality without burning out teams.
- Increasing ADR without losing the perception of value.
- Maintaining standards when resources are scarce.
- Smiling while the building is literally collapsing from within.
Many narratives about hospitality overlook something fundamental: hotels do not operate in a laboratory.
They operate in controlled chaos.
And the more complex the property, the more imperfect the reality.
Manuals are wonderful until four coaches arrive at the same time.
That is where real hospitality begins.
In fact, some of the most surreal comments I have heard about hotel operations come from people who have never worked a real service. I see it constantly on social media: individuals who have never handled an opening, never managed a mass check-in, never coordinated Housekeeping at high occupancy… delivering absolute lessons on how to eliminate queues, optimise flows or redesign operational experiences.
And they do so with extraordinary conviction, as if managing a hotel were simply a matter of moving boxes around in a presentation.
Sometimes I look at certain posts and think: “Someone who has spent an entire Easter week inside a hotel would not have written this problem like that.”
Because operations leave scars. And humility, too.
Those who have experienced real hospitality know that almost nothing is as simple as it appears from the outside.
And then there is one of my favourite scenes in contemporary hospitality.
When dramatic analyses start arriving from ownership or the financial side about “why things are not working”, while the accounts for recent months have still not been closed, actual costs have yet to be consolidated, and nobody is entirely sure what the current operating GOP actually is.
Yet strategic conclusions arrive remarkably quickly.
- “The problem is operational.”
- “There is a lack of control.”
- “We need to optimise.”
- “Productivity is low.”
- “We need to push harder.”
All of it usually said from a comfortable emotional distance from actual service.
Because few things in hospitality are more fascinating than receiving pressure over results from people who are still waiting for bank reconciliations, management accounts or a truly cleaned-up profit and loss statement.
Meanwhile, Operations is trying to survive:
- incidents,
- turnover,
- online reputation,
- weather conditions,
- staffing,
- suppliers,
- breakdowns,
- demand peaks,
- and guests who sincerely believe that a full hotel should operate exactly like one at 20% occupancy.
Sometimes I feel that certain financial analyses in hospitality are like commenting on a match by looking only at the score… without having watched the game.
That is why I am concerned by a certain romanticisation of modern hotel management: the idea that leading is simply about thinking strategy, innovation or branding while others “execute”.
No.
Real authority in hospitality does not come from the organisational chart. It comes from operational credibility.
Teams immediately identify who understands the reality on the ground and who merely masters the rhetoric.
And that changes absolutely everything.
A General Manager who has worked Reception during an operational collapse makes different decisions. An owner who has lived through a full August understands the real constraints better. A consultant who has worked real services makes much more grounded recommendations.
Because hospitality cannot be fully understood from the outside.
It is understood from within. From the noise. From the pressure. From everything happening at once.
That is why some of the best hoteliers I have known have something in common:
- they speak less,
- they observe more,
- they simplify better,
- and they never underestimate operational complexity.
They do not need to perform their knowledge.
Because they have already survived enough breakfasts with 300 guests.
And that teaches you more than many master’s degrees.
Hospitality needs fewer corridor gurus and more people willing to understand how a hotel truly works when the pretty lights go out and real operations begin.
Because managing a hotel is not the same as having an opinion about a hotel.
It is keeping it running when everything happens at once.
And that, honestly, is only understood by someone who has walked out of a 16-hour shift thinking:
“miraculously, we made it through today as well”.
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